Why I wrote you a love letter
Yesterday, I wrote about I Wrote You a Love Letter—a collection of love letters for the internet. Initially, I hadn’t meant it to be a project. I’d sat on the idea for years, jotting down occasional notes, but never taking action. It always felt like something I’d get to eventually, but “eventually” never came.
Then, about four weeks ago, I was talking to my brother about a completely different idea. I casually mentioned the love letter concept and instead of dismissing it, he lit up. He saw the vision clearly, and before I knew it, we decided to build it together. That moment gave me the push I needed. What had been a distant thought suddenly became real. More than the project itself, it gave me the chance to connect with my brother in a meaningful way. Life often pulls us in different directions and unless we’re intentional with it, time slips by. This project gave us a reason to create something together.
Building something with someone you love is a unique experience, like writing a love letter. You can’t rush it. You need patience and thoughtfulness. When writing, you consider how your words will be received. Similarly, in collaboration, you think about how your ideas will impact the other person. It’s a balance between expressing yourself and being mindful of their response. Working with my brother taught me the importance of slowing down and communicating openly. It’s easy to get swept up in the excitement of a project, but the real connection happens in the quieter moments—in the pauses and reflections. We weren’t just creating something together; we were merging our visions into one. That required active listening—not just responsiveness but understanding. Sometimes it meant stepping back and letting the other person lead. It wasn’t about compromise; it was about finding a shared rhythm.
In the end, creating something with someone you love isn’t just about the result. It’s about the process—the shared moments of discovery, the small decisions that add up, and the way you learn together. It’s like writing a love letter: “I see you, I value you, and I want to share this with you.”
I Wrote You a Love Letter has reminded me of a simple truth: it’s the time spent, the care shared, and the connection built that matter most. The project isn’t just about the idea; it’s about how it brings us closer and lets us build something meaningful together.
If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to explore the letters already shared through the project. Each one offers a unique piece of someone’s world. If you feel inspired, share a love letter with the internet—whether for someone you love, someone you miss, or simply as a way to reflect on your own journey. Your contribution could be a meaningful part of something bigger.